Embracing Natural Beauty
Making peace with your imperfections instantly relieves you of a lot of stress. It allows you to get on with your life, focus on other things, feel more relaxed and ultimately happier.
And the fact of the matter is that we all get breakouts or experience dry skin sometimes and there’s not one of us that won’t get wrinkles during their lifetime. Fact. Even Angelina Jolie! So next time you’re looking at the latest magazine or scrolling through Facebook and there’s not a wrinkle, pore, blemish, or beauty spot insight, be assured that they’ve either got a great surgeon, or the photo had, well, a little embellishment, shall we say.
Another thing is that the people who obsess over their imperfections seem to end up on an endless quest to resolve them. So, they get their nose done. Then they realise they don’t like their wrinkles, so they get a facelift. Then they spend thousands on liposuction. But then they’re still unhappy with their complexion so they use some products that are way too strong, probably damaging their skin and guess what? It’s still not good enough.
When you have a mindset like that, there’s always another imperfection that needs dealing with and you spend most of your life unhappy and unsatisfied. Which is why it’s so vital to create a healthy mindset around perfection and imperfection.
Our imperfections are also what makes us unique, which is why other people often consider our imperfections as attractive and vice versa. They make us different, more memorable and help us to stand out from the crowd.
And imperfections also make us more relatable and approachable. It often transpires that those deemed the most ‘beautiful’ or ‘successful’ people in the world are the loneliest because for whatever reason, they seem less approachable to the rest of us. Revealing our imperfections is actually the thing that draws people to us.
And finally, what does perfect mean anyway? There could be a million versions of perfect. It’s impossible to define because it means something entirely different to each and every one of us. Perfect simply doesn’t exist.